* Be polite and patient. Don't expect a kiss on the first date. If you act polite, your
partner might go out with you again and then you might get a kiss once he or she is more
comfortable with you. That said, as you get a little older, people become more comfortable
with kissing and it’s polite to gently try to kiss your partner if your date has gone well.
If you don’t, he or she might think you’re not interested. Just keep in mind that trying to
kiss someone is not the same as expecting to kiss someone. If your partner isn’t into it,
politely respect that.
* Don't go too far your first time. Give some time till you go in too far. It will spice
things up!
* Experiment. Over time, you’ll want to try a variety of different kisses for different
moods and times. Change it up to keep things interesting. For more information see the
related wikiHow on how to French Kiss and how to Kiss Passionately.
* There are a lot of fish in the sea. You may get turned down a lot, but don’t take it
personally.
* And just because your teeth are bad, or if you have braces that dose not mean you should
not kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend.
* Learn from your mistakes if you can - sometimes the timing is bad or the approach too
forceful - and approach your next opportunity confidently.
* Make sure your hair is out of your face.
* If you have glasses, be careful not to poke their eyes out by accident or anything. Take
contacts into consideration if you have them, if not, just, be, careful.
* BE IN THE MOMENT. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example,
when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look okay
tonight?", or anything else. Basically try not to be too self-conscious, or have ANY
thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other
person's lips feel against yours.
* PAY ATTENTION. Are their lips/tongue moving slower or faster than yours? Go with it.
Respond in a way similar to the way they are kissing you. Of course there is room for you to
be experimental, but you need to make a connection first. Unless whoever you're kissing is
just totally soulless, you can have a good kiss with just about any one. The key is to feel
it. When both people approach a kiss with this mentality the moment can be absolutely
amazing.
* Don't always try to "pretty up." The girl/guy loves you for the way you are, and you don't
have to look different and pretty up for them, don't load up on make-up. Just be yourself.
* It's okay to be nervous, but when you think there is a right time, do not wait for him/her
to make the move first, take action, if you know that person is into you, they will take it.
* If they turn away and don't accept your gesture, wait, if they know you're into them, they
will know that you can wait patiently for another time of touching.
* Never open your eyes, you should just let it happen. Close your eyes, relax, and enjoy it.
If you you open your eyes the other person might have opened his or her eyes too, which will
lead to an awkwardness.
* If your partner slips their tongue into your mouth and you don't feel comfortable with it,
just gently push their tongue back into their mouth with your tongue.
* Do not use gum! It activates your salivary glands which, at times may wash away harmful
bacteria, but generally just leaves your breath smelling worse than before. Breath mints
(apart from actually brushing your teeth) are the best choice if you want to make your
breath smell better.
