Kiss Warning

* Do not hesitate for too long! If someone indicates that they don’t want to be kissed, that's perfectly alright. Most girls love when you "go for the kill" at a spontaneous time.

* Kissing is not supposed to be aggressive, and it's definitely not a contest of who can get their tongue the farthest into their partner's mouth.

* Don't kiss a guy or girl who has a disease or cold sores in their mouth, that will hurt you in the future!

* No slobber! No one likes needing to wipe their mouth after a good-bye kiss.

* Don't move to open-mouthed too soon. Let the other person give you signals.

Kiss Tips

* Be polite and patient. Don't expect a kiss on the first date. If you act polite, your

partner might go out with you again and then you might get a kiss once he or she is more

comfortable with you. That said, as you get a little older, people become more comfortable

with kissing and it’s polite to gently try to kiss your partner if your date has gone well.

If you don’t, he or she might think you’re not interested. Just keep in mind that trying to

kiss someone is not the same as expecting to kiss someone. If your partner isn’t into it,

politely respect that.

* Don't go too far your first time. Give some time till you go in too far. It will spice

things up!

* Experiment. Over time, you’ll want to try a variety of different kisses for different

moods and times. Change it up to keep things interesting. For more information see the

related wikiHow on how to French Kiss and how to Kiss Passionately.

* There are a lot of fish in the sea. You may get turned down a lot, but don’t take it

personally.

* And just because your teeth are bad, or if you have braces that dose not mean you should

not kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend.

* Learn from your mistakes if you can - sometimes the timing is bad or the approach too

forceful - and approach your next opportunity confidently.

* Make sure your hair is out of your face.

* If you have glasses, be careful not to poke their eyes out by accident or anything. Take

contacts into consideration if you have them, if not, just, be, careful.



* BE IN THE MOMENT. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example,

when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look okay

tonight?", or anything else. Basically try not to be too self-conscious, or have ANY

thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other

person's lips feel against yours.

* PAY ATTENTION. Are their lips/tongue moving slower or faster than yours? Go with it.

Respond in a way similar to the way they are kissing you. Of course there is room for you to

be experimental, but you need to make a connection first. Unless whoever you're kissing is

just totally soulless, you can have a good kiss with just about any one. The key is to feel

it. When both people approach a kiss with this mentality the moment can be absolutely

amazing.

* Don't always try to "pretty up." The girl/guy loves you for the way you are, and you don't

have to look different and pretty up for them, don't load up on make-up. Just be yourself.

* It's okay to be nervous, but when you think there is a right time, do not wait for him/her

to make the move first, take action, if you know that person is into you, they will take it.

* If they turn away and don't accept your gesture, wait, if they know you're into them, they

will know that you can wait patiently for another time of touching.


* Never open your eyes, you should just let it happen. Close your eyes, relax, and enjoy it.

If you you open your eyes the other person might have opened his or her eyes too, which will

lead to an awkwardness.

* If your partner slips their tongue into your mouth and you don't feel comfortable with it,

just gently push their tongue back into their mouth with your tongue.

* Do not use gum! It activates your salivary glands which, at times may wash away harmful

bacteria, but generally just leaves your breath smelling worse than before. Breath mints

(apart from actually brushing your teeth) are the best choice if you want to make your

breath smell better.

Kiss Steps

1. Be kissable. Use lip balm, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. Soft lips are simply more inviting. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with a stinky mouth, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them.

2. Stay well hydrated; a dry mouth usually will smell worse. Of course, make sure you don’t have anything stuck in your teeth, either. But make sure not to drink anything that will have a funky smelly afterwards, or anything red that might leave a ring around your mouth.

3. Test the waters. Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Does he or she seem comfortable touching you? Do they brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches? Has the subject of kissing come up in conversation? If you haven’t noticed any of these signals, but the person does seem “into you,” try discreetly and innocently breaking the touch barrier (guys will generally be very receptive to this, many girls will not) or bringing up kissing when you’re talking. The key is to be subtle and to watch the other person’s reaction.

4. Wait for the right moment. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected.

5. Get permission for the kiss. You usually don’t have to ask if you can kiss someone, but you do need to make sure your partner is willing to kiss you. The easiest way, of course, is to ask, but it just makes things awkward so don't . Ask “May I kiss you?” or say “I’d like to kiss you,” and lean in right away. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you’re doing and silently look into the person’s eyes for a moment or two. If your partner's eyes drift down to your lips that’s a pretty good sign that he or she is ready for a kiss—chances are the reaction may be subtler, however. Another good way to get permission is to just lean in and try to kiss the person or gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss.

6. Approach for the kiss. Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).

7. Kiss gently. There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. A soft, closed-mouth-to-closed-mouth kiss is perfect. Break the kiss for a moment, keeping your head close to your partner’s, and if your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another, longer, but still gentle, kiss.

8. Make the kiss the reason for the kiss. A lot of people (mostly men) seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast.

9. Let your partner participate in the kiss. Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner’s body language and pay attention to clues (sighs or moans) that tell you you’re doing something he or she likes. Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you’re comfortable with what he or she is doing. 10. Breathe. If you’re kissing for an extended period, it’s easy to forget to breathe. Believe it or not, gasping and turning blue is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. You do not forget how to breathe! 11. Use your hands. While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. Embrace your partner, cup his or her face very gently in your hands, or run your hands through his or her hair. Another turn on for the first kiss is to gently caress their shoulder while you kiss. It shows you are comfortable with him/her. Don't forget your manners!

How to make unforgetable Kiss?

A kiss is one of the most intimate and sensuous things you can experience with another

person. Fortunately, while there’s no “right” way to kiss, many people experience anxiety

about kissing or don’t know how to ask for a kiss. Fear not! Whether you’re getting ready

for your first kiss, or you’re an experienced kisser and just want to improve your game for

your first kiss with a new partner, you’ve come to the right place.